Substitutes are not good even in food. I mean, eat industrial soup instead of domestic soup is not the same. Or try apple pie from McDonald’s instead of grandma’s pie. That is simply not the original thing.
That is the role of mistress, lover or popularly called a slut. Wait for a call and be ready when he is free.
For him, you don’t have birthday, holidays, you have no feelings, you don’t cry, not smile, you are just waiting for his call to spread legs when he wants. Even sex will not be romantic, he might hurry on a business meeting or he must pick up a kid from the school because he is husband and father at first.
No, the mistress is not a special one. Every one of us can get this offer.
The man who got bored in his marriage, the man who dreams about divorce but it will never happen, a man in midlife crises. But that trap is only for naive ones. This is a story for an insecure woman who thinks that she doesn’t deserve better. Also, some women are used to be alone and they will accept this offer because of their physical needs, but they will not make obligations toward their partners. Still, his wife will wash and iron his underwear and he will eat her meals. That can be humiliated position even for a man because he plays the role of sex slave or toy.
I was very harsh when I got such offer, which made me laugh. That transparent offer got my denial because there is no more pathetic thing than to be someone second choice. If I can’t play in the first league, I will not play in second or third. Neither in a playoff.