Women love to say ” i am strong, i can deal with any kind of problem.” Strong woman is fashionable word, as sign of advantage , so if you are strong you are cool and invincible.
What does it mean? Strong woman is not sumo wrestler or overweight girl who will eat you for breakfast. That is also not superwoman who can fly without wings and turn you into frog with her magic stick. Strength is in character and behavior.
Situations will put your strength on test, so you will see are you really hero in woman shape, or you are still little baby girl.
This signs will show that woman is strong.
If you earn your own money, you are not addicted to father or boyfriend. You can survive by yourself.
Ability to say no.
If you know when to say no and how to get rid of undesirable men, you are strong.
Ability to break relation and to turn new page in your life.
Courage to stand by your attitude and not to follow majority.
Her time is precious and she never waste time on things which could slow down her progress.
She doesn’t wait opportunities, she creates them.
Some wrong beliefs will support statements that strong woman is rude, malicious or negative person. She is not person who will cause every conflict in this world. She will just say no when situation is not comfortable for her. She doesn’t have to be nasty if she is not interested for some men. She will choose appropriate man for herself and she will also try to make him happy. She is not masculine or filthy , she is just firm in her decisions.
As every human creature, she will cry in the time of sadness. What makes difference between her and weak women is that she will use bitter experience to refill her energy. Her mistakes are not punishments, they are inspirations and lessons.
So, when teenage girl say “i am strong, i will survive”, is it really true or that is just an empty phrase? Strong woman is person with experience and maturity, she is not just someone who slapped the guy because he touched her butt.