What is in our mind often makes difference from reality. How to approach to particular person?
If we want to approach to someone, we might try to enter in their brain. What would he or she likes? Not, what you would prefer. For that kind of journey your mind must be open.
Iris likes fast cars, heavy metal music and gothic clothes. Her favorite movie is Count Dracula, and her favorite book Frankenstein.
Simon wanted to impress her so he bought her gift for her birthday. It was the last album of Lionel Richie, where was his favorite song Hello. Her face said everything, but he did not stay on this. He asked, how normal girl can’t love sentimental music, that she must be a lesbian when she likes such dark things and when she is so harsh.
He was full of judgments and stereotypes because his mother learnt him that all women are gentle, tender and soft. So, Iris is not a woman accord this theory. She is traitor of her sexuality and normal women should ashame of her.
Simon failed, and next time he chose different. It is interesting how things which scares us, sometimes attract us. That is why some people want two partners, one for marriage, other for adventure. Iris represented something what Simon is aware of, he wanted to explore his other side, but he failed.
Not everyone dares to open Pandora box. Our internal fears are united in one person who attrack us on unusual way.
Sybille had sex with Victor even he was not her type of man at all. He had long beard, he was smoking weed and his mind was in mess. But Sybille said later, this is the best sex i had. Even she was good girl from good family, she opened Pandora box where was Victor.
She dare and she did not regret.
Would you dare too to face it with someone you like, but that person is not appropriated, even is in forbidden area?
Remember, only brave people open Pandora’s box because they have guts to face it with content.