When one relation comes to the end, couples are in pieces. Here is much anger, rage, sadness, frustrations. Wounds are fresh and one of the ways to heal this could be sex with ex-partner.
That moment is a bomb with clock because you never know what will happen after this.
If you ask women about sex with ex-partner, their impressions are based on feelings. Women are very fragile when they lose a lover, and sometimes they think that great sex will bring him back. If this would be true, then prostitutes and porn stars would never have breakups.
Girl A said: “I think after night with me he will come back. His present girlfriend is real wood in the bed.”
Girl B said: “I will refresh his memories and he will get it, what he lost indeed. I know his sensitive spots and I will reactivate them.”
Girl C said: “I went to his house in his favorite underwear, black panties, and bra. I think he will call me soon.”
Sex is a manipulative weapon, but it doesn’t mean that you can solve love problems with expert skills in the bed. You will make the situation more subjective, your view will be based on passion and soon all will be the same if you don’t talk about things which ruined your relation.
Men will see great chances in sex with ex-girlfriends but for other reasons.
Some of them are:
– So, I don’t have to bother with dinner or flowers, I don’t need to wait for here for a month. We were in relation so we can sex first night after we drink coffee together.
– I don’t have an obligation toward her. We broke once. So we can relax and forget reality for a while.
– She excites me and I will not have problems with erection, she knows me, I don’t have to pretend. She is safe ground.
When you try to get close with ex-partner, the deja vu syndrome is at the door. Yes, once he hurt you. Once you had a fight. Now you are again in the same movie with same actors, even you could predict the end.
You wish different end and you think sex will help you?
Extend the game. Talk with him, don’t let him get close to you so fast. You will have time to see the situation clearly, and he will do more efforts to get you.
Try to found out his present status. Don’t let him do rush with things because later he will jump out to other woman and you will stay broken. If he is still single, invite him to some nice places, find a common interest, watch a movie with him or go to take a walk on the beach.
Don’t remind him of past problems. Soon he will run away because it will remind him why he left away.
It is always good to watch both sides of this problem, think about how much you can lose, and is your heart enough strength to survive the possible damage.
It takes two for a dance, so if he is sitting, don’t dance alone.