Love doesn’t come by force. The main mistake which inexperienced guy can do is to push or force girl to date with him. That kind of guys are or bad mannered or violent and every girl will escape from them.
When you like someone, imagine would you be happy to be with that person without her acceptance. This is the same as you hold parrot in the cage and she wants to fly out, but you don’t want to let her go. Love is a choice, not a prison.
Some men forgot that women have choice. In old times women had card to pick their partners for dance. Ladies were choosing accord their wishes.
I can understand man wish to catch beautiful girl, but wrong approach is to be persistent and to annoy her when she doesn’t want to.
Megan was beautiful girl and very popular in the school. Roy was crazy for her, but she did not notice him. One day he gathered his 5 friends to support him in attempt to ask her for a date. When Megan saw group of guys in front of her classroom, she was very frightened. One of Roy’s friends approached to her and started to talk about Roy and his qualities, how he is good guy and how she will not find better nowhere. She simply runaway because it was trap for her. Nobody asked her what she wants.
Some guys feel as losers and they compare themselves with their friends who are successful in dating.
Popular guys have some characteristic:
They are unavailable from time to time.
They are busy with other things and they don’t ask for girl 24 hours.
They will not annoy girl with desires on first sight, they will talk with her first about other things.
They will give space to her to express her wishes.
They will respect her choice.
Also they will wait until she is ready for any decision about relation.
How you will recognize pest ?
He calls you “my best girl” even you did not say even hello to him.
Once you said no and he is again near you, repeating the same question when you will go on date with him.
His jokes are old fashioned and only he laughs at this.
He got rejection from other women too.
He can be violent or use threats. (“If you don’t want to date with me, i will tell everyone that you are slut.”)
You can get his request for virtual friendship even you don’t have common friends with him, his profile is empty and about me is hidden.
Some men forgot simple thing, that women are not toys. You can’t treat woman as your property, she is not a car to drive her when you want and how fast you want.
Indeed love is a lottery, and if you are not good player you will be alone because you chose bad strategy.