Would you date with your best friend’s ex-lover? Would you date with a guy who is her secret crush? And the last question, would you date with her present partner until she finds out?
Many women will be in shock and say no, how could I hurt my friend like this? On another hand, another group of woman will say “live once and use every chance, btw it is not just my fault, for the game takes two”.
Nothing causes more troubles in woman’s friendship zone than the appearance of attractive man. The man who captures your eyes, who is charming and unfortunately, a womanizer. This kinda man knows very well his influence on woman’s heart and he will not care are you related to a woman who is his target.
The classic story begins when two friends are going out to the club and they have eyes on the same man. This man could play the double game, because two is better than one, just to cuddle his ego. I remember when I was a teenager, the same guy kissed my three friends, every Saturday was one girl, and I was last on the line. Later we were smiling on that, and one of us said: “Fuck such boyfriend, he is not worthy even to spit on him.” Not every story will finish like this, because envy, jealousy and old problems will open wounds and holes in your friendship. Sometimes, a woman will date with your man just to show you the way, cause you were too perfect in her eyes, you got all that she wanted a long time ago, or just this mate poacher likes challenges, so why not to sleep with your man.
Who is guilty in this situation? Indeed, this game takes two.
Real, valuable man will never do such things:
Flirt with your sister.
Flirt with your best friend.
Flirt with your boss at work.
Flirt with your neighbor.
You can’t give him chip and try to control every his step. Well, if you deal with a man who likes everything that has pussy and two legs, then, I am afraid, you are dating with animal, not with a human. How you will watch over him, every time when you introduce him to your friends, he will drool and ask you who is this sexy lady? You will stand and wish to strangle him or to kill your all female friends. No, that is not the way.
The second part of this problem is your friend, how much amount of loyalty and devotion she has.
I would doubt that she respects me in this case:
She dates with my ex-boyfriend without telling me.
She dates with the guy she knew I want him, without notifying me.
She shares secrets with my partner and I have no idea about this.
She gossips me in front of my partner, ex-lover or secret crush.
Before you spread poison, dear women, a check is your female friend really responsible because your man wants her. Cupid arrows are clumsy, it will not hit the target with reason, it comes from hormones. This is the charm of forbidden love because when you can’t love someone, you wish to love someone, this is secret ingredient of every spark in this chemistry.
So what to do when you lose the game, when you must admit that your best friend run out together with your beloved guy?
Be proud and let it go. Also, you are not obligated to keep contact with any of them. If all reminds you of defeat, you can still win and walk away in silence. One day she can ask you forgiveness or he could try something new with you. Then, you just make a smile and say that you don’t believe in feelings out of deadline.