The Internet should be a tool for connecting people who are far away. In many cases that is a good way to talk with persons, you will never meet in real life. But, when you open this secret box, you will find a dark place with doors for revenge. You can be crucified on the internet in many ways, and one of them is spreading porno video about you. If you are an unknown person, probably that will not be so popular but it will stigmatize you. If you are a celebrity, you are a target for this deadly weapon.
Starting from Pamela Anderson, Paris Hilton, and Kim Kardashian, this kind of videos were popular toys to pull attention on main actors in this “movies.” It was not harmful to all, so Kim made big business based on her video and probably nobody would be interested in The Kardashians without this little story. Croatian singer Severina claimed that someone stole a video from her laptop and she rises big dust, but the story was forgotten and she is popular singer nowadays. Shall we talk that mentioned girls were ashamed? Maybe on first sight, but with the time that movies brought them more popularity and more money.
Nowadays we have a different story. Croatian model Tina Katanić recently became “star” in the porno video with 3 guys. Problem is, she was under influence of drugs, without conscience and she looks like a manipulated doll on this video. Accord press, that guys she knew from before. Tina showed clearly her opinion about this. She hired a lawyer to sue them and she reported the case to police. Rape under influence of drugs and spreading porno video without permission on the internet are criminal acts. Whoever did this, accord Criminal law in Croatia can be punished with 10 years of prison or more.
Anytime when publicity talks about raped women, opinions are divided. In many cases, a victim of rape will get the label, woman who deserved this. The audience on the internet made an amateur analysis of Tina’s behavior. So, she was dressed inappropriately. She had garters in a nightclub. She provoked guys with her dance. She finished in a flat with them, and she reported case after one year when someone started to blackmail her. So, the moral majority will say: “She is guilty, spit on her. ” Some stories about her past also made additional reasons for gossips. Accord some rumors, Tina was escorted lady, but it was never confirmed. Publicity knows Tina as queen beauty of Croatia and model. She was commenting actual football news show “Brazuka”, during world championship in Brazil.
In this case, the audience often loses objectivity. During impressions, people will not talk about facts. They will see a prostitute under the influence of drugs. What is very interesting, nobody mentioned names of guys who made a video. That is secret information, and they are marked as victims. Something, in this case, reminds me of the cave when a macho guy is raping a woman, and others will clap their hands because that is a real man. He showed her where is her place. She asked for it. This time, that is even worse, she is tool under influence of drugs and she can’t think with own mind.
Normal, mature and healthy man will never force or deceive a woman to do anything against her wishes. It doesn’t matter is that woman prostitute or escort, what size is her dress or does she wear a bra. If she says no if she rejects to be involved in this, that is an act of rape. When a man brags and spreads video about his activities, that talk about him, as an insecure person who asks for approval of his abilities. Is he not sure about his sex virtues? Well, people look at the video, what do you think?
Women will say: “It could not happen to me, I don’t have such friends and I don’t go to such places.” Well, perhaps you have right. You don’t go to a nightclub in garters, but are you sure that you are spared from troubles? Maybe not you, but your daughter, sister or best friend is a party girl who likes to dance in a club, and maybe her friends are idiots or rapists. Tina was not careful and cautious. She is model and celebrity and she should be more careful. She is a very desirable target for men, to take an advantage of her. What happened is maybe partly her fault, but did she deserve to be judged?
We have legal institutions to solve this problem. Police and court and Department for human rights. B.a.b.e. are Croatian organization for the protection of women rights. Let them deal with this because porno video with Tina is not promo video for her career. If that guy will not be judged, we will show a bad example for the future. What is message then? Every woman could be raped, every guy has right to gave her drugs and to do with her what he wants. You might don’t know, but you participated in this when you said that she deserved this.