I like wild guys or at least guys who are not so available. This statement is not a rarity, you will hear it from many girls. An even mature woman will admit that she would like to involve with a wild guy, if her ages could not limit her or if her status would be single. Men are hunters by nature, but women are those who like to feel alive, seduced and captured my attention. If you think about a fragile princess who falls on the charm of some knight, you will see that he was not totally good and gentle guy. In past times duel was popular, so charming knight killed some rivals, just to get princess for himself.
What is so attractive in wild guys?
I will not say bad, because bad guy would be someone who hit a woman or abuse her. The wild guy is someone who is not so easy target.
He is not here always when you need him.
He is not pushing you, to follow him or to be with him 24 hours.You must catch him.
With him, you are also free. You can’t hurt him so easily, because he is hard to get.
If you leave him, he will not threaten you or beg for you, to bring you back. So, you will not leave him without reason.
He will show you wild side of life. Journeys, adventures, unusual experiences. For sure, with him, you will not spend the weekend at home.
Sex is amazing.
With him, you will forget how old you are.
Women will be interested, what to do, to capture the heart of such guys? What kind of woman would he ask?
This kind of women will have an advantage:
A busy woman, financially independent and with an open mind.
A woman who accept to cross her limits.
(Fear is not desirable if you wish to be in relation to the wild guy.)
The modern woman, who will not judge him.
(Judgments and stereotypes are stones on his way.)
Some women make mistakes in their first steps. They wish to meet wild, even bad guy, for passionate relation. Later, they will try to change him and tie, to sit in a chair at home, with a bottle of beer, until she is cooking dinner. She will try to cut bonds with all his friends and she will make a list of restrictions. When the runaways, she is surprised. If a man wishes to change, he will do it for himself. Any other change, against his wishes, is painful as surgery.
Hazel and William got married after only 5 months of dating because she got pregnant. He had a big house at the farm, with animals and vegetables. Hazel was not thrilled, she was usually painting her nails in the garden. She expected that William will stay at home to help her with chickens and pigs. Instead of this, William continued to meet with his friends, who were motorbikes. She was spending time with his mother, and she did not like this. After she gave birth, things were even worse, because he did not pay attention to his child, at all. So this marriage failed.
Relations with wild guys are very popular when a girl is young. After this, if you must care all life burden on your back, and this wild guy is also unemployed, this will not be so attractive. If his wilderness is just an excuse to stay at home with drinking buddies, he is a jerk.
Wilderness has some side effects.
What captured your attention, at first sight, is not so important later. Maybe his unpredictable nature will be just an obstacle to his way to maturity. If his guts are good tools to fight for you or to make his ambitions bigger, this is a good sign. In another case, if he is wild just to cover his laziness and spend money on drugs and alcohol, think about your choice. He is maybe born to be wild, but you can break free.