Treat a lady like a whore (and the opposite)

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This old proverb found a place in minds of some men who like to control every woman. A cheap opposite psychology is their way to seduce a woman who does not obey them in a way they wished.

Imagine dominant, conservative man who has raised in the family under father’s authority, where woman role was to take care of children and to do housework, while the man was earning money. Her opinion was not important, also it was not desirable that she is much educated because devil could possess her brain. I talk about Harry (the name is changed as I always protect my “muses”). Harry raised in a big family, with 6 children. She was a middle son, lived in poor conditions, without money and education. Harry is bright, not limited man, but very stubborn and bossy. He learned this from his father. Harry got married in the early twenties, with a pretty wife.

Soon he got a cute daughter and then troubles appeared. Harry was young, handsome, and his wife was not a slave. She had her opinion, her wishes, and views. She had an attitude. Soon, Harry starts to abuse her and became violent. Their marriage finished after their argument had a bad end. Harry hit her with a fist into the eye, she was injured. That was a good reason for divorce. Now, Harry sees his daughter once on month, accord court decision.

Did you expect that Harry regrets his actions and became softer? No, this trauma made him worse. He became a playboy, but special kind of man who is focused on old, lonely women in fifties, even sixties. He is money hunter. As he said: “I can make every woman beautiful. Even if she is the ugliest in the world, I can make her feels in heaven. ” He seduces them by sweet words, he talks about their languages because mostly they are tourists which visit his city. After few nights with him, he is going forward to next one because his business is done. Some women handle it with silence but other attack him and call him a gigolo, especially after he doesn’t return his money.

He got involved with Olga, woman 20 years older than him and claimed that she raped him, but after she gave him the money he changed the story and treat her as his girlfriend. He doesn’t love her, but he loves power he got in his hands, to make her a slave and use her for his purposes.

As Harry is just a human, he falls in love recently. His heart shown him a way to a woman near his ages, who don’t want to obey his wishes and who make a joke of his traditional, rigid values. She was mocking him and even insulting, so she became a real challenge for him. Problem is, that woman is married and she can’t be his love. Harry dreams about her, he even offered her to visit him, but she rejected his offer as a cheap attempt to join into his circle of poor, used women.

How Harry treat his ex-wife, and how he treats Olga? Olga is an old slutty woman, in a mood to have sex with everyone because her quote is “life is short. ” Harry gave her kind of honor by appearing with her in public places. How he treats his ex-wife, mother of his daughter? He was beating her and lied to police that she falls on stairs. If you mention his ex, he will get mad and say that her character is not good. If you talk about Olga, he will say that Olga is not bad, even Olga is an old slut and pay for sex with money to young guys like Harry.

His values are distorted, as he treats a lady as a whore, and whore as a lady, just to save his power and raise his ego.

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