Did you ever see a good looking girl and thought how cocky is she? Maybe she just had good taste for the outfit and positive attitude, so her smile and words sound pretentious. Such people are subject to gossips because they are the red spot in the grey area. When I see such woman at work with perfect hair and makeup, I admire to her because often I have no patience and time to watch on every detail on my outside look. She is as walking magazine, everything is on the place.
The reaction of people are different, so my colleagues think that she is a pretentious bitch. Indeed she is an inspiration, she never teases other people but she takes care of herself. How we react to others talk about us, so if we are envious that is the source of inner insecurity.
Look at photos on social networks, many women will use half-naked photos to pull attention. I see quotes how is this inappropriate, vulgar and slutty. Indeed, that is not my business. If the woman wants men who comment on her photos, even with provoking style, that is her choice. Somehow I admire to women who can handle all men population who want to grab them and rip their clothes. Once I saw the girl in swimsuit at Facebook, other girl said under photo:”Slut, how much?”, and she replied in a cool way:”You have the problem with me?”
Frankly, I will judge only double-faced women. That category is women who wish to put their photos, but they afraid of their husbands or they think their body and face is not for photographs. In this inner mess, they will attack others who dare. I sometimes put provoking photos on my page, not to attract men, I do it cause of defiance and to feel free. I wish to see what will moralists say. Parties on the beach, oh how dare you?
The bigger problem on some profile are fake photos or photos from youth, even we know how much person is old. Or, male under woman photo. Such freaks are not rare. Games with genders are popular on the internet.
Some chick lit psychology claims that women with half-naked photos will attract the wrong kind of men. As perverts, maniacs, men for adventures. Well, who guarantee you that covered face will not attract maniac? If you are naive, your way of the talk will connect opportunists and liars, no matter what you wear.
What are irritating conservative people the most?
Photos with alcohol.
Photos with one woman and more guys.
Photos of older women at the party.
Grumpy photos, because the woman should always smile accord traditional standards.
Photos with the cigarette.
Short skirts, visible bra, messy hair.
The message is not outside, it is inside. You might fool people with blond hair and big boobs, but when you speak it will reveal your real nature. That was my pleasure when two older gentlemen wanted to buy me the drink and I said that I have enough money to pay for my drinks by myself.