Wedding bells are in the background, the sound of violin tears your heart into pieces, and your fairy tale is finally official. You got married, he got married, we got married. As in love novels, this is happy end of love romance, he is now yours and forever and nobody will take away him from you.
Life is full of failures and far away from perfection, so status married doesn’t mean “until death separates us.” Sometimes, marriage will also have a deadline and it will be just an episode in soap opera called “life.” When journalists caught Richard Gere in a restaurant with a pretty woman, he was married. He said then: “I am married, I am not dead.” The same answer you can get from some men who think that ring on his hand is not a chain, and they are still wild in the heart.
In the life of men, some things are challenging. The first challenge is first sex. The second challenge is marriage with a right woman, the third challenge is a love affair until you are in marriage. So, if you are a first-time cool dude, the second time you are a gentleman, and third time you are Mr. Big. Wow, that man has a sexy wife, but yet he has a mistress. That is an achievement which will get the admiration from many men.
A real heaven for married men is the internet. Even your wife is on your social website, that is not guaranteed that you must be devoted only to her. Some couples will set up rules and fair play, so they will have a circle of mutual friends and respectable people around them. But, in some cases, man will use his social website to flirt in the cyber world, and if he gets lucky, also in real life.
What happens if a man is caught in infidelity? Which are his excuses?
Some expert answers:
I have no idea who is that woman who sends me messages. She must be insane.
That was a joke, not a flirt.
I thought it was your friend.
It was the only innocent message, she loves me, I did not want to be harsh on her. She is just a friend.
Some women will swallow this excuses as chocolate, to feed their ego. My husband? He would never do that, even in a dream. That sluts try to get him, but he just laughs at them. Women will protect their husbands for a reason to save their marriage and spare their children. After all, what would people say? We can’t allow this.
Funny thing is that in a case of an affair, no matter is this real or virtual, people will blame women. If this mistress is not married, she must be a whore. She ruined other’s marriage. Crying husband is down on knees and begs his wife to forgive him, as Bill Clinton asked forgiveness from Hilary when Monica did blowjob. Wow, naughty girl, good women don’t do this never.
The conscience of society is limited. Ethic question is not: “Why married man cheated wife?” That question is: “Why you involved with a married man?”
Personally, I would never involve with a man in marriage because that is waste of time. Also, I don’t wish to collect other remains or crumbs. As long world exist, also there will be foolish women.
What kind of women will fall into a network of a married man?
Lonely and insecure. They think they don’t deserve better.
Disappointed in love. They think that is their destiny.
Naive women. They wish to believe that they are the right choice, and their competition is the wrong woman.
Women who wish to catch the last train. If he is married, whatever. Maybe is last chance.
The indecent proposal is an apple with a worm. It looks sweet outside, but inside is a bitter taste, so you will spit that worm with sickness. It is not too late for you, run away.