How many times you heard words : “It is just a habit, quit this. ” When we stuck in kind of trouble caused by our addiction to someone or to something, we think there is no exit.
Bad friends, bad lovers, bad job? You are overweight, too shy or you can’t find friends?
Bad habit is part of every problem which should be changed. In the beginning is fear, in the middle is chaos but a the end is fascination. That is how i think when i changed some things in my life.
Bad friends were falling as domino, one by one, even just before some times i was thinking i can’t live without them. Ex boyfriends , some i could not imagine life without them, are past today. I can’t remember that story which included them.
How changes affect on us?
Feeling powerful. Finally, your life is in your hand.
Feeling stronger. Now, you are not a toy, you are person who will decide about you.
Feeling independent. Now, others will not take your life in your hands.
Feeling happy. You won over your fear and it makes you self confident and happy.
Feeling brave. At least, you develop guts.
If you stuck in the same movie with the same actors, the end will be familiar to you. You will live in the same day again and again. Even you will wonder that you are cursed, because same bad things are happening to you all the time.
Try something different. This is happiness in empty area. Now you step on into area where you did not know what is happening. You did not visit this area before. As beginner’s luck in cards or gamble, this change might bring positive result to you. Now you are clean of poisons, judgments, you are filtered and illuminated. This is the biggest motivation you could get.