You love him, but you are not sure on his feelings? He likes you, but words “i love you” are not on his mouth?
Love is not always mutual and balanced. We can meet some persons who will be amazing and stunning for us, but still something stops us to love them.
It is easy to have sex, but making love and sex are two different things.
Main differences :
When you have only sex you don’t want to see this person few days, you need to be alone to clean your mind and heart, maybe you will feel guilt or shame.
When you make love you want to be with this person all the time, to make her happy with different things and on different ways because you shared something special together.
Having casual sex is like changing socks. One day with one partner, another day with second partner. Making love is like you buy expensive dress and you will care for this not to destroy something what is so special for you. You make love only with one person, and that person is owner of your heart.
There is an old trick how to recognize real love. Girls will often be fooled by sweet words but actions will make cold shower.
“He was great lover, it must be love. He treated my body so great, as real expert. I never enjoyed like with him. “
“We are making love every time when i see him. I think he loves me, otherwise he would not jump on me every time when we meet.”
“He did not call me, and when i called him he said that he is busy, but i saw him in coffee bar with friends two hours later.”
“I don’t know why his friends are laughing to me. How his friends know that i wear red bra and tanga?”
“He said that i must be a bitch when i enjoyed so much.”
When your relation has only one purpose, when you are not talking with partner, you don’t share nothing except passionate sex, that is not real love. You can test your partner. If sex is the only reason why he or she is calling you, then you can deny this. You will not lose nothing. Iced relation is cold weapon in this cold war.
Dominic and Marie had passionate, hot relation. She felt with him like in “Basic instinct”, just without killing. She could not reject him never. One day she found lipstick in his bathroom and she found out that he is cheating her. She did not say nothing, but when Dominic called her next time, she pretended that she is busy. Dominic did not give up so he called her again for few days. Marie opened door in provocative underwear and invited him on glass of champagne. Dominic started to kiss her, she pushed him and said to him that she is not in the mood. Then she put all cards on the desk, and Dominic was faced with the truth.
He could not say that he loves her. He was using an opportunity, but when Marie rejected him , it was not purpose for this relation anymore. She found out the truth, even on painful way.
If you touch partner without feelings of love, if you are just horny, this is like contact of two dead bodies. No sparks and no flame , just superficial instinct. It is alright if you have deal with your partner, but if you love, and he doesn’t love or opposite, then you have problem.
Put your lover on ice and your will know the answer.