It is very easy to get fooled. Someone cheated you, you are misguided? Don’t blame yourself, it could happen to everyone. Difference is in way, how to get out from this and avoid future disappointments.
Naivete is sign of trust, just in extreme form. If you believe in everything, you are naive.
Life would be boring without risks. If you are too cautious, you step into paranoid area. Wow, everyone is against me, i am on black list and for sure this is again my bad luck. On that way, you close yourself into golden cage, and nobody could harm you. How to open your soul to others? Who can make guarantee that you will find treasure, and that you will not stuck in the trap?
Here are the most often traps for naive people, and you are not the only one who will fail.
1. salesman and his skills
You bought something what is not necessary and you spent big money, because salesman persuaded you in value of his products? Look at your wardrobe, there are dresses you will never wear. Here is jewelry without values, fake pearls and cheap necklace, but it looks good on first sight.
2. big chance for easy money
Many advertising about earning big money on easy ways fooled many people. Everyone will think “but i will be the one who will really earn.”
3. masters of tarot, black magic, love spells
This woman saw that you will get marry next year? You are still single but you gave her 100 euro? You are not first and not the last.
4. virtual marriage proposal
Your prince charming promised you to get marry and then he disappeared after you lend him money? Call someone who have similar experience.
5. big lottery won, roulette, slot machines
Las Vegas, Monte Carlo, expensive casinos over the world, and everyone dream about jackpot. You think you are the one who will win? But others think about this too.
6. meeting with agent who promised you to make star from you
You want to be famous and this man promised you this? Suddenly you are victim of human trafficking, porno industry or you simply got fooled. You enter into twilight zone.
7. online shopping
Cruel stats and numbers are black evidence, how many people get fooled with online shopping. Empty pockets and wallets are reality.
8. liberty movements, sects
You wish to escape from reality, and spiritual person promised you better world? Suddenly, you are without passport and money, but you are member of sect and they can do with you whatever they want.
9. politicians promises
You are member of political group and they promised you good job, when they win on elections. Nothing for you, still? Keep searching.
10. pills for losing weight
You paid big money to lose your weight, but you are even more fat than before? At least, your wallet is thin.
Everyone who wants success in life must develop sense for reality.
It doesn’t mean that you need to give up from dreams and hopes, but you need info. Numbers don’t lie. If 90% people slip in some area, will you enter into 10% who did not? Maybe your neighbor won on the lottery, but it doesn’t mean that you are next. Your cousin got married for rich man after they know each other 2 months? She got luck, but exceptions doesn’t make rules.
Big decisions are investments. First you need to study your situations, otherwise you will buy cat in the bag. There is no guarantee that you will protect yourself from bad surprises, but at least don’t jump on first offer. Also, if you did mistake, your knowledge will help you to get out faster from this. If you see cat in the bag, throw this bag and runaway.