Two people will split after problematic relation, sooner or later. Breakup suppose to be an end, but is that really true?
You will see how much someone cared about you accord his behavior after breakup.
Three situations are possible :
If he is silent, if he doesn’t talk about you around, if he just greet you in the street, that was respectable relation. You could not agree with him, but you will not jump on each other like two wild beasts.
Breakups are not always civilized so you could be victim of harassment. He is calling you, stalking you, brag bad things about you, your private moments are now at internet, your friends know all details about your relation. Shortly, you have bad luck.
Third situation is the worst, because that is caught in the middle. He doesn’t want reunion with you, but he wants you as hidden lover.
What this really means?
He will call you when he wish. Meanwhile, be silent.
He will not date with you in public. You are his secret.
He might has new girlfriend, but you should close eyes and wait him in hope to changes his mind.
Now this is really big fall, from his priority until his option, but you love him and you think you will be together with him again if you show patience?
I would recommend you to show him teeth. It means, cut every connection which such guy who wish to drag you into gutter. You were couple, and now you will be his hoe?
If you ask me which crazy woman would accept this options, i know many.
Love is blind when you fall for someone and suddenly you lose him. He was yours, completely, but he chilled out, circumstances were bad, you were different, and he slipped from your hands.
I would say, let him go. If you must persuade him what he lost, i am afraid you will sink in your intentions to show your value.
Breakup is as dark, blind alley. There is no way out, this is final destination. Turn on and don’t come back. Person who cut connection must follow you and prove that here is still something left .
When guy has bad intention, he will treat his ex girlfriend as tool and toy, until something new comes out. Such guys are selfish. They ask fun in the middle, before new relation.
Respectable, honest man will spare you of this. He is not into you anymore, but he doesn’t want to humiliate you either. So he will say hello and how are you and that will be all. Thank you for playing, game over.