Doesn’t matter do you wish to show your naked body in a magazine or suggest a hot night to the guy, or if you just want to show legs in a short skirt, the first step is to be free of the invisible chains. Whatever is blocking you inside, face it with this and show what you want.
Some people have problems with inhibitions, which are serious limits to relax in any kind of relations.
What type of people is in this risky group?
Shy people. They feel unpleasant in the crowd, they are blushing and their voice tremble. Sometimes they can’t breathe. Also, they will repeat some words, as they want to lean on something during the speech.
Introvert people. They feel better in the corner, with the book in their hands. Their privacy is closed and they are untrustful. Their internal world is locked.
People devoted to a tradition or a religion in extreme ways. Some people will feel guilty if you suggest anything provocative, against their tradition or religion, what is opposite to their rules.
People with complexes. No matter if they have bitter experience, bad opinion about their physical look or their abilities, the seed of inhibition is inside of them.
Inhibitions are not something to shame about or subject to jokes. If you laugh at the person who has such problems, you are the idiot.
What if you fall in love in person with inhibitions?
These are the steps.
Open this box carefully, don’t push and don’t force. Show him that your world without chains is beautiful.
Go slow. If your girlfriend is still a virgin, don’t rush with sex. Show your romantic side first.
Show your weakness. Don’t act superior toward a shy person. You are also human. Tell this person when you slip on ice and fall. Tell how you spill coffee in the restaurant. Also, you are not perfect.
Give them compliments. You must feed their self-respect. Make them stronger, wake up their self-confidence.
The worst thing you can do when you have friend or lover with complexes is to make laugh or give them pills or alcohol. Remember the movie “Carrie.” The girl got a period and she had no idea what is this. Until she was bleeding under the shower, other girls hit her with tampons. It was a scary scene and expression of human cruelty.
The person with inhibitions is not an experimental rabbit or someone unworthy. When someone is hiding a secret, that is somehow charming. You wish to know what is bothering him and it will wake up your curiosity. When you love such a person, use patience and tenderness.
Every one of us faced with such kind of obstacle. You had inhibition, your sister or friend also had this problem. This is temporary, so don’t make the problem harder. If someone is sinking, give him hand, don’t push him deeper to get drown.