Crucified Tina – how internet abuse people

Internet should be tool for connecting people who are far away. In many cases that is good way to talk with persons you will never meet in real life. But, when you open this secret box, you will find dark place with doors for revenge. You can be crucified on internet on many ways, and one of them is spreading porno video about you. If you are unknown person, probably that will not be so popular but it will stigmatize you. If you are celebrity, you are target for this deadly weapon.

Starting from Pamela Anderson, Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian, this kind of videos were popular toys to pull attention on main actors in this “movies.” It was not harmful for all, so Kim made big business based on her video and probably nobody would be interested for The Kardashians without this little story. Croatian singer Severina claimed that someone stole video from her laptop and she rise big dust, but story was forgotten and she is popular singer now days. Shall we talk that mentioned girls were ashamed? Maybe on first sight, but with time that movies brought them more popularity and more money.

Now days we have different story. Croatian model Tina Katanić recently became “star” in porno video with 3 guys. Problem is, she was under influence of drugs, without conscience and she looks like manipulated doll on this video. Accord press, that guys she knew from before. Tina shown clearly her opinion about this. She hired lawyer to sue them and she reported case to police. Rape under influence of drugs and spreading porno video without permission on internet are criminal acts. Whoever did this, accord Criminal law in Croatia, can be punished with 10 years of prison or more. 

Anytime when publicity talk about raped women, opinions are divided. In many cases, victim of rape will get label, as woman who deserved this. Audience on internet made amateur analysis of Tina’s behavior. So, she was dressed inappropriate. She had garters in night club. She provoked guys with her dance. She finished in flat with them, and she reported case after one year, when someone started to blackmail her. So, moral majority will say : “She is guilty, spit on her. ” Some stories about her past also made additional reasons for gossips. Accord some rumors, Tina was escort lady, but it was never confirmed. Publicity knows Tina as queen beauty of Croatia and model . She was commenting actual football news in show “Brazuka”, during world championship in Brazil. 

In this case, audience often lose objectivity. During impressions people will not talk about facts. They will see prostitute in the influence of drugs. What is very interesting, nobody mentioned names of guys who made video. That is secret information, and they are marked as victims. Something in this case reminds me on cave, when macho guy is raping woman, and others will clap their hands, because that is real man. He shown her where is her place. She asked for it. This time, that is even worse, she is tool under influence of drugs and she can’t think with own mind. 

Normal, mature and healthy man will never force or deceive woman to do anything against her wishes. It doesn’t matter is that woman prostitute or escort, what size is her dress or does she wear bra. If she says no, if she reject to be involved in this, that is act of rape. When man brags and spread video about his activities, that talk about him, as insecure person who ask for approval of his abilities. He is not sure about his sex virtues? Well, people look at video, what do you think?

Women will say : “It could not happen to me, i don’t have such friends and i don’t go on such places.” Well, perhaps you have right. You don’t go in night club in garters, but are you sure that you are spared of troubles? Maybe not you, but your daughter, sister or best friend is party girl who like to dance in club, and maybe her friends are idiots or rapists. Tina was not careful and cautious. She is model and celebrity and she should be more careful. She is very desirable target for men, to take an advantage of her. What happened is maybe partly her fault, but do she deserve to be judged? 

We have legal institutions to solve this problems. Police and court and Department for human rights. B.a.b.e. are Croatian organisation for protection of women rights. Let them deal with this, because porno video with Tina is not promo video for her career. If that guys will not be judged, we will show bad example for the future. What is message then? Every woman could be raped , every guy has right to gave her drugs and to do with her what he wants. You might don’t know, but you participated in this when you said that she deserved this.

Heartbreaker is not into you

 

Heartbreaker is special kind of man. Deep in himself he hates women, for some reasons. Difference between him and playboy is in ability to feel. Playboy likes women, he tries to give love to every woman, even it is not possible to make everyone happy. This guy is as thunder, he hits and leave devastated hearts, and he doesn’t feel guilt.

How is it possible that some men hate women , even they are heterosexual? If you know man who hit woman, who leave her with few children and doesn’t care for her, who leave pregnant woman without explanation and who doesn’t give alimony, he is such kind. 

Let’s go to the past, so you will see why A, B and C became heartbreakers.

Man A. He is son of divorced parents. He lived with mother, and she was changing her lovers as socks. So in this flat were many men. It was uncle Sam, uncle John and bunch of uncles were regular guests in that home. Mother of A was slut. Everybody talked about this.

Man B. He was poor and ugly. Girls were mocking him and nobody wanted to go in prom night with him. He was the main topic of bet and jokes. 

Man C. He was weird. He could not fit in, and girls were avoiding him. 

Time was playing important role and with years situation changed for this guys. 

Where are they now?

Man A lives in another city. He is cute guy, but his relation are short and instant. His bed is very traffic. He has sex with women and later he leaves them, without explanation. Reason: all women are sluts.

Man B is rich. He earned a lot of money and he has private business. He is using women for sex and he can’t fall in love. Reason: every woman will break his heart because he is ugly.

Man C is still single, but he is the main star at internet. He has popular profile and women are asking for him. He thinks that all women are the same and he breaks hearts virtually. Reason: women would leave him anyway, and that is a dream.

Sometimes, our trauma has deep roots. Something hurt us in childhood and we can’t go further. Mother who beaten her son. Mother who left his son alone and gave him to adoption. This man can’t blame his mother, but she is now everywhere. Her mirror reflection is in every his relation. He can’t get rid of bad vision, and that is why he can’t love.

If you will date with heartbreaker, he will behave on this way:

He will be jealous on every man in your life, no matter is this father, boss or friend.

He will accuse you that you are dishonest.

He will check you and control your movement.

He will be distrustful and suspicious.

Whatever bad happens in your relation, your will be main culprit. 

If you want to owe his heart , it is not enough to seduce him. You must change his perception about women. If that is possible, you have chances. Be gentle, kind and persistent, but don’t insist too long. Your heart is also not a toy, and don’t let him to play with you.

Heartbreaker will wake up when he lose someone who really cared about him. You don’t need to seek for revenge. Walk away quietly , without track. 

Material girl

Have you ever dream that you woke up and your whole day is free, without any obligation? Simply, you can throw your alarm clock into garbage box and continue to sleep. Your beloved man will work whole day for you, and all you need is to be beautiful, just for him. 

Economic crises has many side effects, and one is flood of women who want to get marry for rich guy. It is hard to find good job, even harder to work 40 hours a week or more, and to be hard working woman and housewife in the same time. If you have kids, you have triple role : wife, mother and business woman. What’s left from your life? Do you see how your mirror shows wrinkles, eye bags  and your face is just a shadow what you used to be?

Gold digger is name for woman who wants to get marry for rich, successful guy. If you are pretty and sexy, it sounds as easy task, but that is not at all. Actress Dolores Lambaša, who was in relation with entrepreneur Dikan Radeljak, once said: “That all girls want to jump on my place, they are waiting under my window to take my position.” Even that rich man is not handsome and young, even his character is maybe bad, he is rich and his bank account is all what you need. I mean, look at Bernie Ecclestone or Flavio Biattore? I bet that they would not have such beautiful women if their wallet is not full of money. Imagine that one of that two guys work as cleaner or as carpenter? Maybe they would stay single till the end of their life.

What you really need if you want to catch rich husband?

Beautiful look. It means, perfect shape of body, pretty face and style.

Be on the right place in right time.

Control your emotion. You don’t fall in love with heart, you fall in love with rational mind.

Good stomach. Maybe your husband will be frog, not prince. Maybe he will ask things from you which you are not ready to give. 

Education is not necessary, but you need to be enough smart to stay silent in some situation. 

Smile and kindness. As Barbie, you are here to smile, not to talk. You are accessory. 

Focus on your aim. Your ex, your friends, or your parents, nobody should stay on your way.

Be ready for loss. Some girl will wait to push you from your place. Remember Donald Trump. Ivana was his first wife, then her place took Marla Maples, and then beautiful Melanija. You are not irreplaceable, so know your time and your limits.

Many people use word material girl, for woman who caught good husband. Just, not every woman who is married for rich guy is gold digger. Some women will progress with a help of her husband, he will invest in her abilities and she will build own business empire. Ivana Trump is today successful business woman, even it doesn’t look from the start. Some women just need good springboard. When she get wings, she can do all alone later. 

How will guys recognize such woman? Are you married with digger?

She doesn’t want to work nothing, she avoid every kind of work, because she is sick, tired or whatever.

She will not try to find any work. She will paint her nails, go to spa or in wellness, and your credit card will be active all the time because she is in eternal shopping.

She asks expensive things from you. If you don’t buy her Armani, Prada or Gucci stuffs, you are loser.

She will go everywhere with car. Why she would walk to the shopping mall? Her legs are tired.

She sleeps a lot and she hired other woman to do her housework. She has servant to wash laundry or dishes, because she can’t make her hands dirty.

If she wants to travel, she will choose exotic destination. Don’t be skimpy, she wants to see the world.

If you don’t want to please her wishes, you don’t love her and she will abandon you for some guy with deeper pockets. 

If you lose your work, she will leave together with your money. What, you think she will stay with poor guy?

Material girl is not woman who cries because of love. She cries because of lost opportunities. As Madonna sing a long time ago: “I am material girl and i live in material world. “